We created National Kink Month a few years ago as fun way to spread the word and encourage real education on kink beyond the pop culture hype of 50 Shades of Grey. It’s since been embraced by kinksters all over, and we’re excited to do it again. Help us spread the word, start the conversation, engage and educate, and have fun!
Add your preferred badge or banner to your site or blog, post it on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, Tumblr, make it your profile pic – just share it! Use hashtag #nationalkinkmonth to join the fun on Twitter (we’re @stockroom_com, feel free to follow or tag us)!
Feel free to contact me for any custom requests.
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Promote our Screaming Syren Sale – a special sale with quick changing selections delivering big savings! Only until October 9, we’re offering 20% off clothing from Syren Latex and Stormy Leather – perfectly in time for Halloween, when latex sales are HOT. Plus savings up to 50% ALL MONTH on sexy costumes, masks, BDSM gear, and sex toys for some post-party fun.
Grab your links (simply swap out XXXXXX with your own affiliate code):
http://www.stockroom.com/Halloween-Sale-C875.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
Grab your banners and get started:
Whether you’re just beginning or have been in the game for years, it can still be valuable to review some of the basic techniques in promotion. Not all websites have the same type of audience so it’s best to tailor marketing to your own specific audience.
A personal blog by a sex toy reviewer will do best by promoting products in their own, unique conversational voice as if sharing personal experiences with friends rather than repeating traditional sales pitches.
A site identified with a brand instead of a person can highlight the selling points either of specific products or a store in general, answering the customer’s ultimate question: Why do I need this?
Many times, the most effective method is to integrate these messages into your site and marketing efforts in a way that is fluid with the rest of your content, as opposed to just a banner inserted into some empty space (banner blindness is real!).
Here are some specific suggestions for different types of affiliates and traffic. Modify them to suit your own voice, or use them as inspiration for even more creative, personal promotion techniques. These are definitely not the only options, just a few to get you started!
As always, please let me know any questions or requests for any specific types of graphics.
Your Website:
Don’t hide your affiliate link! For best results, incorporate it into your site navigation – you can simply add an additional menu option that says “Sex Toys” or “BDSM Gear” or “Shopping” (if your site is about toys or BDSM gear) and link directly to Stockroom.com with your affiliate link.
Or, you can make it more personal – link it to a page on your own site explaining why you chose Stockroom.com as your recommended shopping source. List the values that you appreciate: our products are handmade in our Los Angeles workshop to ensure quality rather than cheaply imported from overseas; we have a carefully curated product selection instead of stocking every product under the sun; we offer luxury products without the luxury price tag; we’re a trustworthy business that’s been in the scene for over 25 years.
Do you have a blog? Include a list of your favorite products with affiliate links to each product page. Are you an educational site? Create a list of recommended toys for different purposes along with their benefits. Do you provide a different service, like dating? Make a list of top selling products or newest products. Feel free to contact me for any recommendations!
Twitter and Social Media Sites:
If you tweet or post something like “Buy this toy!” most people will ignore it as they scroll past any tweets that look like ads – but you can still tweet links without seeming spammy.
What are your typical tweets like? Do you discuss your own sex life? A periodic tweet like “God, I love my Viberite massager!” or “I just found my new favorite toy” or “So I decided these new cuffs with be my new daily fashion accessory too” along with your affiliate link to the appropriate product page can plant some positive seeds for potential sales.
You can ask questions too – post a specific product or two with your affiliate links and ask your followers for their opinions or feedback. Sometimes potential shoppers have the same questions and your posts can help solidify their purchase decisions, conveniently through your affiliate links!
Email/Newsletters:
Whether you send personal updates or have automatic mailers set up, why not throw in your affiliate link with a short recommendation? Add it to your signature, or create an occasional bigger inclusion. For example: “I just noticed Stockroom.com is having an awesome sale on Syren Latex right now – they rarely ever discount these products! This is a great opportunity to snag some expensive latex at a discounted price!”
If you sell memberships or services, we may be able to offer you a special discount code to offer to new members and customers in their confirmation emails as an incentive to sign up for your site (contact me for more information and consideration/qualifications).
Toy Reviews:
These are some of the easiest and most popular promotional methods, and you can start with products from your own personal experience. The most effective reviews go beyond simply describing the product and explore the actual ergonomics during use, whether it lives up to its claims, noise level with easy-to-understand comparisons, any outstanding/disappointing features (and why), various or alternative use techniques, using it solo or with a partner, would they use it again, how convenient was charging/clean up, etc. These are only a few points, but don’t forget to insert your own special personality into posts. This is what makes your opinions stand out and what makes readers identify with and trust you.
Direct link to the product page in the beginning of the post and also at the end – make it easy for the reader to click through when they want, but avoid linking each mention of the product. Do you mention any other comparable or complementary products in your review? Link to those product pages too. We’ll let you use our pictures, but it helps to take your own photos for a more honest, trustworthy review (they also help highlight any features you may be talking about).
Dommes, Chat Models, Models, and Performers:
Many times, your fans and customers want to spend their money on you. Create a “wishlist” of products linking to Stockroom.com with your affiliate code with a private address (like a PO Box) they can ship to – they can buy products that you’ve picked out that we’ll ship to you – so you get free toys plus commission while your fans get to feel a closer connection to you.
Or, control them from afar – in general terms, many of these fans tend to be male: suggest (or demand!) that they to buy specific cock toys through your affiliate link (cock rings, harnesses, chastity devices, whatever you choose) and then tell them how and when to use to them. They’ll love feeling like they’re doing it for you.
Community Sites:
These tend to be built around specific fetishes and niches, and can convert very well. While some of these sites frown upon or even prohibit affiliate links, places where people are openly discussing different products and experiences are fertile ground to convince members (and lurkers) to buy a particular product. At the minimum, link to your own website in your profile (which should have a prominent shopping link for easy shopping).
Video Sites:
If video content (the “p word” if you will), is your main reason for traffic, then fulfilling that need will typically be first on your customers’ minds. Which product selections you make will depend on the video genre or genres you cater to.
BDSM and other fetish content is fairly easy: feature products similar to those in the videos so your users can recreate their own scene. Sometimes however, viewers choose content because they can’t recreate these scenes in their personal life, so solo toys are good choices for promotion as well. The same is true for more vanilla content: Couples’ toys, vibrators, and dildos can be good, while solo toys are typically always a safe bet (especially if your audience is primarily male).
I hope this helps new affiliates get started and even gives any old pros new ideas or a fresh perspective. Feel free to contact me any time with any questions.
If you have enough traffic, you may qualify to receive products for reviews or even free products for sponsored contests for your readers. Site traffic, social following with interaction, and age of site are all considered prior to approval.
For those of you that don’t remember me, I handled The Stockroom’s Affiliate Program for five years until last year, when I moved from Los Angeles to the east coast. I am excited to announce that I’m back on board and here to help out again, especially anything that you may need assistance with or have been waiting on.
I’ll be sending out new promotional updates regularly soon, but please send me any requests or questions you may have, especially if you’ve sent in the past and have not gotten an answer yet.
Looking forward to working with you again!
Monica Jean
monicaj@stockroom.com
Happy February!
‘Tis the season of love (and self love!), and we’ve got everyone’s sexiest night covered with our Valentine’s Day Sale! Plus we’re still offering FREE SHIPPING on orders over $159, so the savings just keep adding up to sales for everyone.
Valentine’s Day Sale
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Get your links up now, sale runs through Tuesday, February 14th (but don’t worry, there’s no end date for Free Shipping)!
Start promoting now:
http://www.stockroom.com/valentines-day-sale/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/valentines-day-sale/?ref=XXXXXX
Even more ways to promote! Send traffic directly to our Toys For Couples page – start promoting now:
Toys for Couples on Stockroom.com:
http://www.stockroom.com/For-Couples-C363.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
For more couples banners, click here!
Daily Special Promo
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Daily deals are still as hot as ever, so make sure you’re promoting our Daily Special – every day we feature one product discounted at least 20% off. You snooze, you lose! With the popularity of 1 day discount sites and programs, take advantage of the fun and promote our Daily Special on your site! The link stays the same, the page will dynamically update with a different product everyday.
Promote it!
http://www.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
In The Los Angeles Area In The Near Future?
Check Out Our Upcoming Stockroom University Classes!
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Join us for more of our upcoming Stockroom University classes (or promote them to your traffic!). Affiliates can attend for a discount rate of $5 (standard rate $10) – if you’d like to attend, please RSVP to Sierra@stockroom.com.
Hosted by Angel Payne and Erin Black
Saturday, February 7th, 2015 – 2:00pm 5:00pm
Location: Stockroom/Syren Retail Boutique
When you turn the pages of 50 Shades of Grey do you wonder how author EL James career first began, how she suspended disbelief to become the voice of a young-kink curious woman which crowned Mrs. James one of today’s best selling adult fiction authors?
Perhaps you’re curious about other USA Today and Amazon Best Selling writers who live and breathe the art of creating fantasy fiction?
Meet Angel Payne & Eryn Black. Two Goddesses with a Pen who not only write about BDSM, they have actually explored it in their personal lives as well.
Learn about Miss Payne and Miss Black’s journeys from wives and mothers to becoming Two of today’s most successful indie novelists. See what it takes to get their stories ready from A to Z. Hear from the team members that inspire and promote these talented ladies. Meet their cover art models and speak with their Public Relation reps and find out why it takes more than a typewriter and an idea to get published.
If you have writing career aspirations, don’t miss this informative discussion that goes deep inside the pages of two creative minds who show us just what it takes to be successful independent erotica authors.
Promote it!
http://stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Goddesses-with-a-Pen-P4036.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Goddesses-with-a-Pen-P4036.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
Hosted by Ken Melvoin-Berg and Sunny Megatron
Saturday, February 18, 2012 – 5:00pm 8:00pm
Location: Stockroom/Syren Retail Boutique
Just in time for St Valentine’s day, a sampling of 6 different types of play in one class for you and your sweetie. You will get expert instruction with a focus on safety, hygiene, preparation, and execution of the scene. You will also be able to sample a variety of play during the demo portion of the class. Bring your curiosity and a willingness to try something new. You must be 18 years or older to attend. Singles, couples, and poly groups are all welcome.
Topics to be covered include:
• How to construct a BDSM scene/Role Play
• Service and slave training
• Impact play: Floggers, single tails, paddles, punching, and spanking
• Balloon bondage
• Edge play: Trigger warning!!! This one is extreme play, not for the weak of heart.
Promote it!
http://stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Kinky-Tapas-P4598.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Kinky-Tapas-P4598.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
Thanks to everyone promoting Stockroom.com !!
Lots of love,
Sierra
Sierra@stockroom.com
Happy Holidays
From everyone at The Stockroom, I’d like to wish you all happy holidays and a huge thank you for your business and support! Wishing the best for you and yours this holiday season 🙂
XBiz Awards Show
January starts the new year with a bang with XBiz 360, January 13-16!
With the new year also comes awards season, and we’d like to thank everyone for our extensive nominations this year:
Retail Affiliate Program of the Year
Online Retailer of the Year – Specialty
BDSM Pleasure Products Company of the Year
Retailer of the Year Boutique
Distributor/Wholesaler of the Year – Specialty
Soft Bondage Line of the Year – KinkLab®
Fetish Pleasure Product of the Year – Agent Noir®
Holiday Sales & Promos
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Send your traffic to shop for the best gifts and the biggest savings to The Stockroom this holiday! We’ve got multiple sales and gift guides to ensure even the nicest customers have the naughtiest holidays…
With huge savings on our finest gear and sex toys, we’ll ensure everyone will have a very, very merry holiday.



It’s the most wonderful time of the year: our annual SeXmas Sale, with up to 55% in savings it’s our biggest sale of the year!
Sale runs through December 25, so start promoting now! Simply link to:
http://www.stockroom.com/SeXmas/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/SeXmas/?ref=XXXXXX

Start promoting now! Simply link to:
http://www.stockroom.com/giftguide/?ref=XXXXXX
Gift Guide on Male.Stockroom.com:
http://male.stockroom.com/giftguide/?ref=XXXXXX
For banners and more info, check out our Affiliate Blog.
Promote Your Wishlists
To link, replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
It’s not too late, so don’t forget that you can promote your Stockroom wishlists with your affiliate code! Not only can your friends, fans, clients or anyone buy things for you and have them shipped to you while keeping your personal info secret, plus you can also receive commission on the items you receive for free! Now is the time to start putting your wishlist together, so simply add &ref=XXXXXX to the end of your wishlist url and enjoy!
Here’s an example – Promote yours now!
https://secure.stockroom.com/wishlist/wishlistShared.aspx?sharedWishlistCode=7414526&ref=XXXXXX
Don’t have a wishlist yet? It’s easy to get started!
If you have a cobrand store, simply follow the steps listed below on your store.
1. Create an account on https://secure.stockroom.com/wishlist/wishlist.aspx (or login if you already have an account, this is separate than your affiliate account).
2. Make sure that you fill out your Shipping Address (whether you have an account or creating a new one, check here to make sure it’s filled out and current: https://secure.stockroom.com/account/general/customer_account/shipping_address/
3. Shop away and start adding things to your wishlist!
4. You will be given a URL on your wishlist page to share, just simply add &ref=XXXXXX to the end.
Thanks to everyone promoting Stockroom.com and hope you have the happiest of holidays!
Lots of love,
Sierra
Sierra@stockroom.com
It only seems kinky the first time.™
Thanksgiving is here, and we’ve got a horn of plenty promotions!
Office Closed for Thanksgiving Day
Our office will be closed Thursday, November 27th, for our Thanksgiving Day holiday. We wish everyone a great weekend! The office will be open Friday but I will still be recovering from a tryptophan coma so if you have any pressing issues please email Brendan@stockroom.com, I will be back on Monday morning, December 1st.
Black Friday Sale
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Stockroom.com Black Friday Sale Up to 75% Off!
It’s time once again for the hottest deals of the year during our annual Black Friday Sale!
This year our feast of savings could not be contained by a single weekend, so we’ve expanded our Black Friday Sale to one full week! Let your customers know that these are the deepest discounts of the year! Black Friday Sale! Offer your customers the best values with great sale prices this holiday!
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Sale ends December 1st, 2014, so start promoting now! Simply link to:
http://www.http://stockroom.com/black-friday-c753.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/black-friday-c753.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
Spanksgiving Sale
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Why get damp and dirty traveling over the river and through the woods for Thanksgiving when you could stay in and experience the sublime satisfaction of Spanksgiving!
Let your customers know that they can save up to 50% on our finest disciplinary tools, including fearsome floggers, stinging straps, and powerful paddles! Sale ends December 1st, so start promoting now! Spanksgiving Sale! Offer your customers the best values with great sale prices this holiday!
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Sale ends December 1st, 2014, so start promoting now! Simply link to:
http://www.http://stockroom.com/black-friday-c753.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/Spanksgiving-Sale-c751.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
Daily Special Promo
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Daily deals are still as hot as ever, so make sure you’re promoting our Daily Special – every day we feature one product discounted at least 20% off. You snooze, you lose! The link stays the same, the page will dynamically update with a different product every day.
Promote it!
Daily Special on Stockroom.com:
http://www.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
Daily Special on Male.Stockroom.com:
http://male.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
Thanks to everyone promoting Stockroom.com, keep your eyes peeled for much more on the horizon!
Sierra K. Briscoe
Sierra@stockroom.com
Skype: SierraStockroom
Keep up to date on affiliateblog.stockroom.com
It only seems kinky the first time.™
October is here and it’s time to get kinky!
Halloween Sale!
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Spooky masks and sexy latex make for some great Halloween costumes as well as fantastic additions to a kinky collection! We’re sharing savings of up to 50% off on select latex, BDSM gear, sex toys, Halloween costumes, masks, hoods and accessories for a limited time in our Halloween Sale! Offer your customers great deals to amp up their kink month or get started on their Halloween costume!
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http://stockroom.com/Halloween-Sale-c750.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/Halloween-Sale-c750.aspx/?ref=XXXXXX
Daily Special PromoTo link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.Daily deals are still as hot as ever, so make sure you’re promoting our Daily Special – every day we feature one product discounted at least 20% off. You snooze, you lose! The link stays the same, the page will dynamically update with a different product every day.
Promote it! Daily Special on Stockroom.com: http://male.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX Daily Special on Male.Stockroom.com: http://male.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
Kinky Blog We would still love your submissions for our October kinky blog! I have loved all of the submissions we have received so far and I want to feature even more of our fabulous kinky affiliates! If there’s a fetish that interests you, write on it! If we choose to feature your piece we will pay you in merchandise, cash or both! xoxox, Sierra Sierra@stockroom.com Yahoo: Sierra.Briscoe Skype: SierraStockroom It only seems kinky the first time.™ |
Affiliate Manager Changes
It’s with a heavy heart that I am announcing today is my last day with The Stockroom, I have decided to return to college on the east coast to pursue a long lost dream of veterinary technology. I have enjoyed my years working with all of you and will be leaving you in the very capable hands of Sierra.
Sierra is a Media Studies graduate from CSULA and has been with The Stockroom for 3 months in the Purchasing Department. She is extremely knowledgable about our products and excited to help you to continue to grow with us!
Daily Special Promo
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Daily deals are still as hot as ever, so make sure you’re promoting our Daily Special – every day we feature one product discounted at least 20% off. You snooze, you lose! The link stays the same, the page will dynamically update with a different product every day.
Promote it!
Dog Days Sale
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Whether you’re a proud Master of a human puppy, or a pedigree pooch yourself, our premiere Puppy Play promotion will have you howling with pleasure! Dog Days Sale! Ruff it up!
Just grab a banner and start promoting!
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Daily Special on Stockroom.com:
http://www.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
Daily Special on Male.Stockroom.com:
http://male.stockroom.com/dailyspecial/?ref=XXXXXX
In The Los Angeles Area In The Near Future?
Check Out Our Upcoming Stockroom University Classes! New Lower Price!
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Join us for more of our upcoming Stockroom University classes (or promote them to your traffic!). We’ve slashed the standard price of tickets in half to $10, affiliates can attend for a discount rate of $5 – if you’d like to attend, please RSVP to Sierra@stockroom.com.
Cock Confidence: Strap On Psychology and Technology
By Sinclair Sexsmith
Thursday, Sep. 11th, 2014 7:00-9:00PM
Location: Stockroom/Syren Retail Boutique
Need some help making those awkward moves from maybe-I’ll-strap-on to plowing?
Writer and strap-on expert Sinclair Sexsmith talks about cocks for packing and playing, which harnesses are the most loved, and which to avoid. We’ll delve into some cock confidence and cock mindfulness, positions, pegging, how the wearer can have more sensation, and more.
Promote it!
http://www.stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Cock-Confidence-Strap-On-Psychology-and-Technology-P4598.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
http://male.stockroom.com/Stockroom-University-Cock-Confidence-Strap-On-Psychology-and-Technology-P4598.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
Thanks and best wishes to all, and keep your eyes out for more from Sierra!
Monica Jean
Skype: monicajeanla
Your New Affiliate Manager:
Sierra K. Briscoe
Yahoo: Sierra.Briscoe
Skype: SierraStockroom
Email: Sierra@Stockroom.com
Keep up to date on affiliateblog.stockroom.com
It only seems kinky the first time.™
To link, select either Stockroom.com or Male.Stockroom.com url & replace XXXXXX with your affiliate id.
Our long awaited Men’s Bolero Straitjacket® has finally arrived! With even more features than our patented women’s Bolero Straitjacket, this new, innovative design is sure to become a staple in every bawdy bedroom and devious dungeon. It includes 7 points of restraint, a long buckling strap with removable cock ring, and endless ways to wear and use to restrain your lucky (or unlucky!) fellow.
Designed and handmade with soft, sturdy garment leather in our Los Angeles workshop, it is made to be attractive as it is functional, with great care put into creating clean lines to avoid the bulk and bulges of other straitjackets on the market. Our new design is sure to become another instant classic, and a worthy investment for bondage afficionados.
Start promoting now! Simply link to:
Men’s Bolero Straitjacket on Stockroom.com:
http://www.stockroom.com/Mens-Bolero-Straitjacket-P5345.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
Men’s Bolero Straitjacket on Male.Stockroom.com:
http://male.stockroom.com/Mens-Bolero-Straitjacket-P5345.aspx?ref=XXXXXX
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